Controlling anger is one of the most difficult tasks. This is a type of emotion which commonly occurs due to the innocence or ego. We may get irritated for different types of reasons. Therefore, this topic can be categorized into two classes. One is people who get angry very easily and the next one is people who don't get angry that much easily.
According to studies, a person who gets angry very easily might be innocent. But some other studies say that using drugs and similar things lead to get angry and aggressive behaviour.
No matter what ever it is. We have to learn controlling anger. Because the life of people who couldn't manage their anger has often led to many relationship conflicts. The prophet had told, " the person who wins on wrestling is not a powerful man but the person who could control his anger is the most powerful man". So, we have to be the most powerful man.
While we get angry with other people, better is to keep mum. Because words we have spoken once when we are angry, cannot be taken back.
Suppose a person was talking to his friend. Both of them were extremely involved in the discussion of joking and other serious matters. Suddenly that person felt uncomfortable to his stomach, he felt vomiting. The difficulty had been for a while. He will be alright if he could vomit. Suddenly he vomited upon his friend. That time he relaxed and he became alright. But just think about his friend who was bathed in his vomit. Definitely, he would have got a bad impression about this person. But according to the vomited person, he had relaxed and he misunderstood that everything is alright but, his friend would never forget the ugly situation he had faced.
Similarly, when we get angry we have to control instead of scolding with others with bad words. Because too late only we will realize the intensity of the words we have taught. That is why never behave to anyone in a bad manner according to the corresponding situation. We have to vomit our anger secretly.
Also, Prophet had told, we must not scold our enemies beyond a certain limit, because one day he may become your friend. Similarly, Never love your friend beyond the limit. Because one day he may become your enemy too.
According to studies, a person who gets angry very easily might be innocent. But some other studies say that using drugs and similar things lead to get angry and aggressive behaviour.
No matter what ever it is. We have to learn controlling anger. Because the life of people who couldn't manage their anger has often led to many relationship conflicts. The prophet had told, " the person who wins on wrestling is not a powerful man but the person who could control his anger is the most powerful man". So, we have to be the most powerful man.
While we get angry with other people, better is to keep mum. Because words we have spoken once when we are angry, cannot be taken back.
Suppose a person was talking to his friend. Both of them were extremely involved in the discussion of joking and other serious matters. Suddenly that person felt uncomfortable to his stomach, he felt vomiting. The difficulty had been for a while. He will be alright if he could vomit. Suddenly he vomited upon his friend. That time he relaxed and he became alright. But just think about his friend who was bathed in his vomit. Definitely, he would have got a bad impression about this person. But according to the vomited person, he had relaxed and he misunderstood that everything is alright but, his friend would never forget the ugly situation he had faced.
Similarly, when we get angry we have to control instead of scolding with others with bad words. Because too late only we will realize the intensity of the words we have taught. That is why never behave to anyone in a bad manner according to the corresponding situation. We have to vomit our anger secretly.
Also, Prophet had told, we must not scold our enemies beyond a certain limit, because one day he may become your friend. Similarly, Never love your friend beyond the limit. Because one day he may become your enemy too.
